Update 5/29/10: I now know I love having sex with women and having my husband there is even better. It was GREAT!!! I cant wait till we have our next threesome. There's nothing better than playing and licking a girl and having my hubby's cock inside me at the same time, trust me its awesome! I especially love to get it doggie style while licking a girl out. Next time I just want to play and lick the woman and then watch him fuck her. :D I dont know yet which is better sex with a woman alone or a threesome with my man. Why dont you help me find out... HER: I talked my husband into letting me try this site to find myself a few women. I have been curious all my life but only in the last year or so have I finally had the courage to do something about it. I have tried the LGBT clubs to find someone but didn't like the selection I found there. All young college girls at one, damn few women at another, all the good ones were taken etc. Although one couple wanted to take me home, my husband was only going to get to watch and I couldn't do it. I was horny as hell but a three or foursome without him would, in my eyes, be wrong. I now want to try to meet women on here. Any woman that is interested please understand I want my husband there even if he doesn't participate. I prefer he does. I am shy around new people and we are in a very loving relationship. Without him I would not have the courage to explore my sexuality. I find the bolder I get the happier I am and my marriage is. WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN OTHER MEN. My husband has all the cock I need and more than I can handle. He spoils me rotten and will spoil you too. He means the world to me and I could never be in a long term/permanent relationship with a woman without him. I am not very experienced with sex although my husband is teaching me. He knows how to do everything that I have ever heard of and more besides. The purity test and the perality test are my responses not my husbands. We both believe that the perality results describe me best. HE however is a pervert LOL. I have a few rules that are semi-flexible. 1. I control his cock. I will let you use it but it belongs to me. You cant have it if I'm not there without my permission. That means exactly what it says. I might give you permission to use it without me but our relationship would pretty much have to be husband, wife and girlfriend. As in a long term type of thing. Dont get me wrong I want a girlfriend and would love to share my man often but you and I would have to be in love not just fuck buddies. He is constantly horney and I need someone to help me take care of his needs. 2. I expect a clean pussy. We love to lick it so we want it clean. I clean mine often so it is ready whenever his magic tongue wants to play. If we meet you, you should have cleaned yours. Most women cannot smell themselves and think it is clean when it is not. That isn't meant as an insult to anyone but I haven't met a woman yet that can bend over far enough to check herself. 3. If you want toys used on you please bring your own. My husband is the only toy of mine you get to use. All the rest of my toys are for me. We have no problem using your toys on you and hope you will do the same. 4. My husband and I love to eat pussy. If he joins in he WILL lick yours. If you don't want to lick mine he might not let me lick yours. That's his rule not mine. I DO break this rule ONLY for very special women. Since he was the one to teach me how I am ok with this and you should be too. He however will eat yours even if I don't and trust me he is GOOD. That damn tongue never gets tired..... 5. SAFE SEX IS A MUST. WE HAVE NO STD'S AND DON'T WANT ANY!!! We keep a stock of both latex and non-latex condoms and he will use them or you don't get it. I am allergic to latex so I have to use the non. HIM: I have given my wife permission to play without me. She has told me she will not. I have given her permission to have a 2 guy threesome. She has told me no thanks. I am doing this for her. Yes she wants me to have fun too but everything we do is for her enjoyment I know I will get mine. Please remember anything we do I will always make her the center of attention unless she wants you or I to be. She is not a selfish per so don't worry you will have plenty of fun too. She is very submissive in bed and out however during a threesome she is always in control. She loves all her friends which is why she is so submissive. She wants to please everyone. She can only take about 1 hour of foreplay and 2-4 hours of sex in one day so you should get plenty of your own attention in a threesome. I will probably get to participate unless you say you only want her however she will want me to at least watch initially to make sure she is comfortable and safe. She is the shy one, I am the outgoing and bold one. You might think this isn't a good combo but it works great for us. Her wild side comes out most when I give her a gentle push. Then you better watch out you never know what she will wanna do next. My wife is a sweet loving woman and I spend my free time thinking of various ways to make her smile and keep her happy. I don't want her to get hurt doing this and will be very protective. Please forgive me in advance if I tell her you are not right for her. I don't want her to get hurt and she gives all her heart to her friends. I don't want to discourage anyone from getting to know her but she isn't the only one that has a say in who she plays with.

My Ideal Person Well I dont have alot of experience with women but I can say I am no longer curious I am truely Bi-sexual now. I am looking for a girlfriend. Only problem is she must be a lover to both of us. I love threesomes and in my eyes it is a wonderful present to give my man. Especially when we are both in lingere and he gets to unwrap his gifts. Its like giving him early birthday presents. My biggest turn ons are kind and generous women that love to laugh. Honesty is a must have quality. Someone that is easy to talk to. If I cant be your friend you wont turn me on. I am most attracted to blonds, big breasts probably because I have them too, women with a few extra pounds, and those with big hearts. If I am ever to fall in love with a woman she would need to fall in love with both of us. I don't want you to think I cant be attracted to you even if you don't match any of those things. I have suppressed my sexuality most of my life and just don't know yet what is perfect for me. You do need to like to cuddle since we are both big cuddlers. The after sex cuddles are great when I have my hubby behind me and you in front and we are kissing and licking each others nipples and then I feel his manhood start to rise again.... Lets just say you will be in for a long night. We do not want just sex. One night stands don't interest me unless you are very attractive by my definition. If sex is involved we want at a minimum a friend with benefits or a girlfriend for me. If you like what you have seen so far please feel free to send us a message.

One of my biggest pet peeves on this site is reading a womens profile. You love everything you read. She seems almost perfect for you till you read a sentence that goes something like this.
My husband/boyfriend gets to watch/join in.
Hmmmm let me think, you have a womens profile not a couples profile. You are a woman, as in singular, just you, no one else on the profile. All the pictures are of you. All the information is about you. The only mention about your man is that one sentence sometimes followed by this one or some variation of it.
He is well hung, you will like it.
Really? He is? I will? And not one picture to prove his size. No picture of his face or body. No mention about why he is so good. What your favorite positions with him are. Mine are doggie while I lick your pussy, him on top, me on my side with him straddling my thigh, or one of us riding his cock while the other sits on his face just to name a few. And those barely even mention his oral sex skills which are amazing. I never liked a guy on top of me and never even heard of the leg straddle one till I met my husband. All this information is missing from your profile and yet your man MUST watch/join in. I don't understand. Are you ashamed of him or just lying about his size? I am proud of my man. He does me GOOD. Even the girls at work know about his skills in bed. My best friend wants to clone him. My lesbian co-worker asks him for tips on licking her girlfriend. I am honest about what I want and that is for him to be there with me, teaching me his skills, and making you cum. I didn't put just one sentence about him in MY profile.
The most annoying ones are the ones that say one of the qualities in a partner they are looking for is honesty.....
WOW You want an honest person yet OBVIOUSLY lie on your own profile. Please don't do this. You are wasting peoples time. If you are one of these women please either change your profile or find a new man. I was told by one lady that she doesn't have permission to play without her man. When I asked why he is only mentioned in two sentences in her profile she told me more people look at her profile if it has just her than if it was a couples profile. It is easier to get single women to message her. Some don't bother to read the whole thing and miss that he will be there. I was flabbergasted... Does this actually work for you dishonest people? By hiding the fact that your man must watch/join in one sentence of your profile you think you will get laid??? How stupid would a woman have to be to fall for this? I'm sure if this has worked the woman would have been willing to do it with him there to start with. When I see a singular profile of a married/attached person I assume you have permission to play without the other. I have permission to play without my husband. I choose not to. He is on MY profile because I want him on it. I do have permission to play alone but I love the look in his eyes when I give him the loving present of a threesome. THAT is true love ladies. Be proud of your man. Give him this gift but be honest to the ladies you seek out.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I want my husband to watch me be the center of attention with
2 or 3 other girls. Every one of my holes gets filled by some
toy or finger or tongue. :X

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Voyeurism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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