Intelligent, educated, good looking, fit, healthy, reaably solvent guy in Herts, looking for friends and lover(s). Would prefer to meet people with similar backgrounds, but not essential. Very friendly and easy to get along with. I'm a pretty laid-back sort of guy and not pushy. I'm pretty tolerant and not the jealous type. I enjoy going out, preferably in mixed company, usually to pubs and bars, but restaurants etc. too. I enjoy music, theatre, cinema concerts etc. Like to watch football too, usually down the pub with mates. The usual stuff, I suppose. Can hold a conversation on lots of different subjects - you won't find yourself with someone who can't string two sentences together! Would be happy chat on line, by email or "live", to text or phone, or to meet face to face for a nice chat over a drink or two - whatever you prefer!

My Ideal Person Someone with a similar background, ideally, who I could get on with in lots of different ways. Sex is important to me, so someone compatible in that area is essential. I like women who understand their own sexuality and are comfortable with it. I do like sexy clothes, so someone who likes to dress that way sometimes would be great.

I don't really have a particular "type", but I'm not the tallest man on the planet (5' 9") and would prefer someone who was a little less tall than that (not essential, though, if you're happy)

Apart from that, I'd like to meet nice, like-minded people, please!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Beatles, Mozart, Charlie Parker, Stones, Ray Charles, Stravinsky,
Mingus, Motown, How long you got

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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