We're an easy going, shy, intellectual couple who prefers "real friendships" We're warm and casual, laid back, very friendly and enjoy the company of good friends. We believe that sexual intimacy is a natural extension of a close friendship & we are looking to build a long-term relationship with like minded people. We are both comfortable, in good shape, clean, conscientious and non smokers. We are both visible in the community, which means we are honorable and discrete; our private lives are nobody's business but our own. We are not into anything that even borders on being degrading or disrespectful. Cleanliness and good hygiene are important to us, as are an interesting outlook on life. We enjoy artists, intellectuals and eclectic peralities and have a universal interest in different body styles, races and cultures. We are politically active in our communities, but not doctrinaire partisans of any ideology. While we are spiritual & try to do the right thing, we are affiliated with mainstream religious groups only in a questioning sense. We do have s and we try to lead by example. There are worse things in life than sitting around in the hot tub on winter evenings, or going on day trips with friends, or just enjoying each other's bodies for an afternoon, but we also appreciate travel, skinny dipping, weekend nude getaways (we are AANR members and frequent nude resorts & campgrounds), B&B escapes and long, drawn-out encounters in front of the fireplace with good friends. We read, we think, we try to enjoy life and we -live for- discovery.

My Ideal Person Your age, your gender, your orientation or physical attributes are not as important as are your attitude, your personality and your sense of humor & thirst for intellectual and physical discovery. We are not interested in pain or anything involving degradation --just fun and feeling good. We are std-free and intend to remain that way--you should feel the same. We are tolerant and appreciate alternate lifestyles and philosophy but a litmus test might be if you understand NASCAR: we do understand the noise and the spectacle, but we do not understand the appeal of watching people drive around a circle for a few hours with 50,000 other people. We will play with couples who hopefully are in relationships, but we tend to shy away from people who are very sexually active with multiple partners because of the STD threat--this is why we tend to shy away from people who are members of swing clubs. Last, we are located in Central Delaware; for this to work out you should be fairly close, although a couple hours in the car is nothing when traveling to meet up with good friends. We do frequently travel to New York and Phila., Baltimore, New England, the D.C. area, and the Eastern Shore. Although it would be nice to also develop some friendships away from home!

We have a lot to bring to a relationship and we answer all but the weirdest emails. We are ~absolutely~ for real. We look forward to meeting you.