Not to try to toot my own horn too much, but it's true - I'm better than average. If I put my mind into something at all, I'm an upper-tier guy at it. I have a good and creative mind. I put my mind into sex. :-) And now, a short break for some boilerplate: \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Okay... back to my intro... The thing is... I try at relationships, but somehow just don't know how to get 'em started apparently. Or, life has smacked me around enough that I'm too paranoid about them. So "relationships" are one of the few things I'm not "top-tier" with. Not that I'm against them, but they just don't seem to occur to me. So, I need to just go back to my default setting - get some here and there, and hope that on occasion some of that might include someone who I really dig, with the time and situation being conducive to it being mutual. I'm a runner, so have very good endurance, and also, even if I am 42, male and sexual enhancement ads are wasted on me. I don't need them. and I won't 20 years from now. Again.. just saying. :-) If you didn't notice, I have a couple of vids. And, even though I'm in pretty good cardiovascular shape, I have a decent shape for sure, but I'm not super lean. I could stand to lose about ten pounds or so before I would be approaching being ripped at all. So, I know I'm not at all perfect, but I maintain myself decently anyway. Guess I'm not quite as disciplined as I should be about eating the best things all the time.

My Ideal Person I kind of don't like this section in that most people will read it as "the only type of person I would even consider" rather than my "ideal" person. Maybe at some time I'll fill some of this in despite that concern.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage, Not against others - just not my usual.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Reciprocity

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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