I am a fairly quiet, intellectual type. I enjoy the company of mates from all walks of ife. I'm not bound to any particular aesthetic and I try to remain considerate of the feelings of other people. Being quiet you often get labelled as arrogant so I often find myself going out of my way to be amicable and thoughtful - needless to say that sometimes gets me into trouble, especially with those who are more rigid in their thinking or suspicious of people who are always friendly and polite. Well, you can't please everyone and I have learned not to try at it too much. Physically I am about half an inch under six feet, I have light brown hair which I try to keep short because it gets too thick and curly if let go; I ware glasses at work and when I need to see but I don't like them much. I don't go to the gym or play any sports; I am not overweight; I have some body hair which I try to keep under control. Six inches downstairs and a bit of a big bum which is a family trait. I keep myself clean and mostly neat. I don't ware my piercings any more but I used to have heaps of them in various places on my body. No tattoos (probably because I can never decide on what design I like enough to want to ware it for ever). I am artistic without being camp, have a background as a musician although now I work in Guest Service. I have a passion for being honest and I don't take people for granted. I know myself very well and I am not afraid to say what's on my mind. I am interested to meet other blokes who are candid, honest and down to earth. I am not a prude, I enjoy sex and I have a well developed sense of reality. I have a partner and we enjoy the benefits of an open relationship. I work nights so I am mainly available during the day time to host and I can also travel to most places around Melbourne. Please send me a message if you are interested in NSA hookups but I am more looking for a regular fuck buddy because of the convenience. I won't meet someone without being able to see a couple of pictures first so please be prepared to send some pictures that include your face unobscured as none of us want to waste anyone's time.

My Ideal Person I have few preferences for the kind of blokes I like physically. I don't go for overweight or really camp/girly blokes. I don't like people who don't keep themselves clean. I admit to being drawn to kind of "blokey" guys, but "nothing too much", as was the Ancient Greek axiom. I find people to be most attractive when they are just being themselves. I tend to focus on voices a lot and this makes me particularly drawn to the "everyday Aussie bloke". I am interested in motorbikes and I find myself drawn to blokes who ride. Age wise I like to keep to around my own age but I like to remain free from being governed by preferences because I have found beauty in all ages. I am less inclined to be physically interested in people more than ten years older than me.