We're standard members, so we cannot access closed profiles. However, if YOU contact us first. we can reply. Please try - we're interested! We have been happily married for over 20 years. We've had a few introductory and tantelizing experiences...which whetted our appetites and made us say in our best mock-British accents: "please sir, can I have some more?" We don't trust easily, so we don't like pushy people... respect is earned - not demanded. We're also uber-germophobes, so we'll be uncompromising about protecting ourselves. We have a list of things we'd love to experience, and are open to many things. Ask - you never know if your fantasy is also ours, unless you do! I guess we've discovered that he is define as a cockold. :)

My Ideal Person We're looking for:

Fun without stress; our regular life gives us enough of that, thank you very much. We may not be able to meet up often, but can interact via internet fairly regularly. We want you to be as respectful and protective of your family, health, lives and personal identity as we are.

There are several fantasies floating around for us - can't hurt to ask, and you never know until you do. But we are totally into quality; not quantity.

A partial list for her:

-A tall, bald, strong, hung, black gentleman, that just LOVES white women and is more than okay with my man watching.
-A strong, young, athletic stud with a beautiful unit that loves older women...well, that'd just be plain FUN to play with!
-To have a FFWB that is a sexy & beautiful woman; or just being a sexy friend to spend some time with shopping, going to spas, typing naughty emails with, etc.
-A couple we could be friends wit, where they all enjoyed a lot of the same activities - would LOVE to have a couple to do stuff with! Ok, so an FWB situation wouldn't suck either! ha ha

What SHE doesn't like:
-MOOBS! JUST SAY NO TO MOOBS!
-unmowed or ungroomed fur...ANYWHERE. MANSCAPING & Girlie-Grooming people...it's the new millenium; get WITH IT!
-bald guy back-hair
-nasty feet or nails
-body odor (she wants breath & body to smell GOOD! Seriously, WHY do people eat garlic, onions and asparagas at a swinger's club?)
-a "tummy" is okay, but an outright GUTT is not
-bad or no teeth
-a hair-style that hasn't been updated in THIS millenium!
-She DOES love people; she just expects the same amount of care put into other people's bodies, hygiene & grooming as they expect from her/them!!

We're in this for fun and pleasure, so be okay with it if we just don't click... someone else surely will with you. So be honest!

Looks are important to us, we won't lie; but they're not the whole story either. Our way of looking at it is this - don't ask for more from someone than you are presenting yourself... what that means is let's be about equals. Not the same, but equal. It makes sense if you think about it.

What is HE looking for?
-Well, he loves to be along on her "ride" and enjoys being a part of that...watching her 'go'. But he is all about keeping her safe too...I.O.W., being her sex buddy and 'having her back'. Double entendre'??? (wink)

-he'd very much love to be with another woman, if she'd love to have her body adored the way he is SOOO capable of doing, and would really respond to his touches. She says he is an ORAL MAGICIAN!

-He would love to have a woman chat him up, come on to him and flirt her ass off with him; her efforts would not be in vain.

We both work hard at keeping ourselves up...not perfect, but maintained. We ask for the same in return. If that's shallow, we're sorry. But we believe in being equals so please, be height, weight, looks appropriate! If you're too tiny or too big, we'll feel uncomfortable either way. (no wait - HE'D LOVE someone too TINY! )

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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