Life can really begin after 50. What do those s know, anyway? Experience and a relaxed approach are what count. I've come realize what I am and what interests me so I'm going to stop wasting time and start exploring. I'm a kind and empathetic per. I'm starting to become more confident in myself and my short-comings! Hint, hint. Let's say I firmly believe that good things come in smaller packages. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. At this point, I'm open to all kinds of exploration . . . except for scat and blood. Ick! I have only had one flogging experience . . . and I loved it. Exhibitionism and voyeurism really interest me. Love those daring folks who have revealing photos taken in public places. Just recently I went with a new friend I know down to a park in Lethbridge and photographed her posing in various stages of dress up to and including completely nude. I guess I don't really believe in labels. Gay, bi, straight . . . kind of meaningless as studies show few are totally one way and sexuality is more on a sliding scale. Let's say I'm pansexual. Physically, I will admit I could lose about 20 lbs and I'm making a plan to address this situation. My dad was 6'2", my mom was 5'1" . . . mom's genes won out! I'm about 5'9". At 58, I'm still young at heart and I'm looking for some new friends interested in playing. :D

My Ideal Person Someone who is open minded, discrete and fun. I'm just starting to explore, so we could learn together or you could show me a few things! I'm a fast learner.

You know what? I'm not George Clooney. But I'm also not the Hunchback of Notre Dame. I don't really care too much about your looks as long as you are clean, open minded and a fun person. I've finally realized life is to short to waste time people who aren't fun!

Men, women, couples, LGBT . . . you are all wonderful. If you fantasize about having someone watch you, I might be your guy. From just watching to photographing (love my smart phone) to any level of involvement you'd like . . . just let me know. As to age, I tend to prefer people 40 and up, but might make an exception for a young person who prefers older.

If you'd like to meet a nice guy with some kinky interests . . . someone who likes touch and giving massages, then perhaps we could be right for each other.